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I am sick today.... 
Friday, October 6, 2006, 08:48 AM
I am sick today...
It is no big deal, everyone could be sick and recvoered...

However, it is the first time that I was so dizzy,and even not able to walked back home last night.

Can't explain the feeling, but just felt that I am so helpless, I was gone down to the subway already, but just felt so dizzy, and really didn't think I could made it back home. So I walked back to CP and got a taxi home.

Usually, when people get sick, they usually feel helpless, have to stay home. However, whenever we're sick, we will go back home! It is the place that we feel safe and comfortable. Still remember when I was so young and small, mom will do her best to comfort me even just a sour throat. I felt safe and comfort.

Nowaday, home has another meaning to me! I have two boys and Lee. Home is provide support to they, and they should feel safe and comfort. I am switching with my mom.

That's the feeling that confused me, becasue I also seeking shelter and comfort from here. When I reached home, just like I got touch down and safe. And Lee was so nervous and insisted to take me to hospital, but finally we turned out to be in a clinic.

Everything seems quite similar, and familar.

HOME... Just turn out from a safety shelter into my responsibility, and ... turn out to be my safety shelter again.....
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Happy Chinese New Year  
Saturday, February 4, 2006, 11:11 AM
It is the Chinese New Year.

It is the major family event for us, you may not meet all your relative for the whole year, until the CNY.

What make is special for this year is: all my brothers and sisters have come to her birthday party to celerate her B-day. We have never been so happy before. It is the sixth day of the new year, the day before the seventh day (which is all man birthday for Chinese).

All eigth of us are standing beside her and I have not seen that smile for a long long time.
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How long we have not look at our family... 
Monday, August 8, 2005, 04:11 PM
It is a long time have not write to the blog.
This is a lot of reasons.... want to update the site first, want to pick a good picture with the blog, want to have a perfect timing for typing....

However, it is only take you 5 minutes to sit down and type. That's it!

How many time you have not spend your time with your family..., want to take a vacation and spend the quality of time with them... Want to earn more money and retire, then spend more time with your family...

Hopefully, you may able to do it... when your kids graduate from university... sigh...

How much you have loose, you did not participate in your boy graduation ceremony of his kindergarden... not play with him in the playground when he was 3... not bike with him when he first learnt how to bike..., not swim with him 'cos you don't know how to swim...

The quality of time you spend with you kids, your spouse is on the dinning table everyday, or even early Saturday morning you kiss your little boys tiny chin.

Go and look at the last family album you took. make sure the date shown was yesterday or last week. Don't be 60s or 70s. I won't, for sure, since I am not that old yet.

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Our new Baby in Hospital.... 
Friday, March 25, 2005, 05:02 PM
It was so close! My new born baby has lost 15% of his weight within his first 2 week of life.

You can never understand how fragile the new life is.

When I am waiting for him in the hospital, I am just so regred that why I did not realise that he was losing so much of weight. This is my boy and I am so sorry if anything happen to him.

Nowaday, we tend to put all our attention to the work, family never be the first at all. However, I am totally understood that family is the most important thing in the world, and it is non-replaceable, and non-recoverable.

It is the same pain that I have ever felt when my dad passed away. Doesn't matter how deeply I regred, it can never be reverted. And the most precious part within my heart has been lost!!! And I will never let it happen again.

I love you my boy!
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It's a boy again.... 
Friday, March 11, 2005, 05:56 AM
My little brother was born today....


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